How to Build Confidence When You Don’t Believe in Yourself
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Why Confidence Feels Out of Reach
You know that nagging voice in your head that whispers, "You're not ready. You're not good enough. What if you fail?" That voice is why so many entrepreneurs, coaches, and consultants hesitate to take the next step. But what if confidence wasn’t something you had to create alone? What if you could borrow belief from others until you saw it in yourself?
That’s exactly what Louise Lally did. She went from doubting her abilities to leading teams, delivering a TEDx talk, and building a thriving business. In this episode of Master Your Business Podcast, she shares how you can do the same.
Borrowed Belief Unlocks Confidence
Confidence isn’t a prerequisite for action. It’s the result. You don’t wait to feel confident before doing something big—you take the leap, and confidence follows.
“Confidence breeds confidence. The more you do something, the more confident you become. But the problem is, people don’t feel confident enough to start.” – Louise Lally
Louise explains that when self-doubt creeps in, the key is to borrow belief from others. Whether it’s a mentor, a coach, or someone who sees your potential before you do, their confidence in you can fuel your own growth.
How to Rewire Self-Doubt and Step into Confidence
Feeling stuck? Louise breaks down practical strategies to silence self-doubt and take bold action:
✔ Find Your Belief Anchor – Surround yourself with people who see your potential and remind you of it often.
✔ Take Imperfect Action – Waiting for perfection is a confidence killer. Action fuels confidence, not the other way around.
✔ Reframe the Narrative – That inner critic? Challenge it. Instead of "I’m not ready," try "I’m learning as I go."
✔ Lean into Evidence – Reflect on past wins, even small ones. Confidence grows when you recognise what you’ve already accomplished.
Your Environment Shapes Your Success
The people around you influence your mindset, your confidence, and ultimately, your success. If you’re constantly surrounded by doubt, fear, and negativity, it’s time to make a change.
Ask yourself:
- Who lifts you up when you’re questioning yourself?
- Who challenges you to think bigger?
- Who believes in you even when you don’t?
If you can’t name these people, it’s time to find them. Louise emphasises that borrowing belief from the right people can be the game-changer that propels you forward.
A Simple Exercise to Shift from Fear to Confidence
Want to instantly feel more confident? Louise shares a powerful mindset exercise that helps break free from fear:
- Write down your fear – Get it out of your head and onto paper.
- Challenge it – Ask yourself: Is this fear based on facts or assumptions?
- Find the opposite truth – If your fear says "I’m not ready," counter it with "I’ve taken steps to prepare."
- Act anyway – Confidence grows through action, not overthinking.
Try it. You’ll be surprised how quickly your mindset shifts.
Take Action Now:
- Borrow belief from those who see your potential—until you see it yourself.
- Shift your mindset from fear to confidence using Louise’s practical strategies.
- Surround yourself with the right people—your success depends on it.
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🔗 Connect with Louise Lally:
📣 TEDx Talk: “Louise Lally TEDx Borrowed Belief”
📲 LinkedIn & Instagram: @louiselallytraining
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